Conversation #1: Something's wrong!

The Five Conversations: Tough Talks with Aging Family Members

We know it's to time to do something to help an aging relative. But, how do we even begin the conversation? Get practical help on each of the five conversations from experienced aging professionals - many of whom have experienced these conversations with their own family members.

##Conversation 1: Something's wrong!##
with Scott M. Fischer, BSN, CDP, CPRS
with Jill Beagles, BA, CNA

This is the conversation where it all starts. You see signs that something is not quite right. But, how do you enter their life to help when they may not believe they need any help? And, sometimes we realize that we are starting to act more like a parent than like a spouse, son, daughter or friend.

- How do I tell for sure it’s time to start getting involved?
- What do I do when they don't think they need any help?
- I don’t want my relationship to change.
- Can I keep being her daughter and not become her mom?